Our five year old saved the day!
Today in Japan, many people celebrate the day before spring by a ritual to cleanse away the evil from the former year, and hopefully bring good fortune to the coming year. Traditionally participants will wear the masks of evil spirits and throw beans as a symbol of driving away the evil spirits. Families and school classes will often carry out these rituals. The masks often look like this:
In our previous town, these ceremonies were pretty underplayed. But since moving here to Ishinomaki, it has seemed more important.
I had forgotten that today was setsubun day until my daughter came home from school crying yesterday. She had remembered coming home, and was pretty adamant that she didn’t want to have any part of the scary demon masks at school today. So I called the elementary school, and was assured that this year their classes were not planning to do anything special at school (though they did bring home peanuts as a snack!).
Our five year old Ian brought home a letter yesterday stating that they would be celebrating this today, with the throwing of beans, making masks, etc. So I called his preschool, and explained to the teacher who answered that we would prefer not to have Ian participate in the setsubun rituals. The teacher put me on hold, and came back and said that was fine.
This morning we prayed with all the kids as they went off. We talked to Ian a bit and explained that he wouldn’t be participating in everything they did at school – he seemed fine about it. We sent him off on the bus this morning.
He came home announcing that he made an evil spirit mask! He said that he needed to participate – he had to make a mask and throw his beans. I’m not quite sure what happened with my communication to the preschool, but my wishes didn’t seem to make it to his teacher somehow. And then, I saw his mask: